Must Read!! 5 Signs That Shows You May Never Be Successful In Life

Must Read!! 5 Signs That Shows You May Never Be Successful In Life

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Posted by Vade (M) » 09 Feb,2016 @ 13:14:36

1. INABILITY TO MAKE DECISIONS AND
STILL DEPENDENT
The very first sign you should look out for in
your quest for success is how decisive and
independent you are.
Can you make drastic decisions without
seeking the consent and validation of
others?
Are you still dependent on parents, friends
etc. for your daily survival?
Making decisions are the litmus test that
shows your readiness and maturity as a
man who will be a potential success and a
decreased level of dependence on others
(parents, friends, partner, spouse etc.) for
survival really shows that you are on of a
kind and also on the right course.
Been able to call the shots and making
decisions on your own most times coupled
with your independence will go a long way
to tell the world of your arrival, but if
negative, well you will never find it easy
becoming a success!
2. YOU DON’T HAVE GOALS AND PLANS
A goal is more like an aim or purpose that
you drive towards to actualize your
aspirations of been a success.
Having no goal is as good as living a
purposeless life because you will not also be
privy to make great plans.
5 signs that shows you will never be
successful in life!
Planning is really important to your general
quest for success, a popular saying goes
thus “he who fails to plan, plans to fail”.
Setting plans is more like putting up
structures and landmarks that will guide
you to an inevitable success.
Planning is important because without a set
down pattern to follow to achieving your
goals, you are definitely going to remain a
complete failure and success will be very far
from your reach.
3. YOU WORRY ABOUT HOW PEOPLE SEE
YOU AND WHAT THEY SAY
The idea of social interaction is cemented
on your relationship with others and how
well you can tailor and adapt yourself to the
current trend and opinions of others.
It is ideal to be worried and concerned
about how people see you and regard, it is
even more great to know there opinion of
you, but this can also be your greatest
undoing.
People will always talk and not everyone will
like you, but the moment you realize it is
your life you are living and not theirs, then
it is imperative to know that they are not
really supposed to tell you how to live your
life.
Constantly seeking validation and approval
from others by trying to act to their
requirements and request will do you a
greater harm in your quest for success.
I will advise that you listen more but act
your best without trying to please everyone,
otherwise, you will just be the next in
number amongst the most underachieved
and unsuccessful people on earth!
4. YOU ALWAYS LEAVE THINGS TO
CHANCE
Chance is the level of possibility or
likelihood that something will happen, and
seriously is this what you want to bank on?
The earlier you learn that things don’t just
get done on their own the better for you
and your success drive.
Nothing really happens by chance and even
if, it will never be better than anticipated or
when It is really and fully controlled.
Take charge of everything around you no
matter how minute or even in-cognizant.
Don’t ever leave anything to chance
because you will never get what you really
want or sincerely deserve.
Begin to push for things and don’t sit with
arms crossed doing nothing, my analogy of
getting things done is…
“If I did not do it or I don’t have an input
towards its actualization, then it’s not mine
and it’s not worth anything!”
Nothing good comes easy and anything by
chance is mostly not good except you are
content with the bottom of the success
chain left only for mediocre.
5. YOU LOOSE FOCUS EASILY AND DON’T
KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
Now this is a grave situation, a man who
looses focuses easily and don’t even know
what he wants is a directionless entity, it
would have been advisable not to be alive.
You should have a focus as an human being
which will give you a clear cut direction on
what ypu need to do to achieve what you
want. But not even knowing what you want
at first is already a negative drive on your
focus.
As a man, you should begin to write out
achievable wants and set motions to
achieve them by fixing your efforts and
focus on them.
A man without focus and direction can
never achieve anything, the best he can do
in that condition is to fail consecutively.
If you ever want to succeed, you have to be
focused.
CONCLUSION
The signs above already have shown you
that you are either on the path to success
or failure and it is left to you to change
course or improve on the positive.
Been successful is a collective and
cumulative effort and it all starts from
when you make up your mind to start
working towards it.
Success is not for the faint-hearted but for
those that can take charge and weather the
storm no matter the turbulence!
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Re: Must Read!! 5 Signs That Shows You May Never Be Successful In Life

Posted by adebayoayodeji (M) » 27 Apr,2016

it is of good help to me
to reshape my visions and goals
God bless you for this
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